This post might offend fragile fathers and fanatic feminists.
It is the silly season. It is time for Prom. Or as we call it down here in South Africa, the annual “Matric-farewell.” It is exactly the same thing, an extravagant themed ball where kids all over the country celebrates their final year in school.
It’s that time of the year when daughters go wild with dress designs and credit card limits, when they’re frantically shopping for shoes and small useless purses, and sit wide-eyed at hair salons trying to find the perfect do that would match that perfect dress and the shoes and that small useless purse. It is the time of year when boys go crazy with anxiety at finding the perfect date, only to end up sweating profusely as they now need to find the perfect ride.
It is also the time when most father’s suffer from overnight baldness from the sheer amount of stress, for they know very well what happens at the specific event, or more importantly what might happen afterwards. Not even mentioning the additional mortgage that is required to fit the bill of the chosen outfit.
One might assume that I have no reason whatsoever to have any type of concern about a Matric-farewell, as Princess is only twelve. The problem is that I started having nightmares about the prospective evening that will happen five years from now, after seeing a picture of a recent dress Rihanna attempted to wear at a fashion event. Not the beach or a strip club, it was an actual event where other people went with tuxedo’s and shit.
This was her dress…
First off, let me just state categorically that THIS IS NOT A DRESS! The definition of a dress, as per Oxford Dictionary is as follows:
noun: dress; plural noun: dresses – a one-piece garment for a woman or girl that covers the body and extends down over the legs.
Clearly, in order to qualify as a dress, the piece of clothing should COVER the body. Whatever Rihanna think she’s got on, it’s simply not a dress, as per the English definition of said garment. I don’t care if this thing was made with pixie-dust, dragon sweat and a million Swarovski crystals…IT’S NOT A DRESS.
Using the same definition, these also do NOT qualify…
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Furthermore I understand that as a father I’m technically disqualified on having any opinion about what my daughter may or may not wear to her Matric-farewell. (If she’s going, by the way, as the jury is still out on that little issue…) The point is, most of my followers would know that I don’t really give a rat’s ass about what the general consensus would be on when to keep my mouth shut or when not to. As would be evident by other opinions I have about dress codes for my daughter or what type of guys she may date. I think it’s important for me to set some kind of boundary so that we don’t end up wasting heaps of energy, having the “there’s no way in hell you’re going to wear that” discussions.
So, let’s proceed shall we…
This is a dress.
See how if COVERS the body AND the legs. I imagine you might even be able to wear body forming underwear underneath this, as it won’t show at all. Your body type would be a secondary issue. I personally think it’s great, as you wouldn’t have to bother with all the crash diets and near-starvation most girls go through before the big night. And as an added bonus, you get to choose from a wide variety of colours.
Maybe you might consider this dress a little on the conservative side and considered something a bit more flashy. Don’t fear when Daddy’s near, I took the time to find something acceptable, but a tad more adventurous. See how it covers the body. Got to love it. And considering what some people pay for those “non-dresses”, this one will ensure you get your money’s worth.
Yes, I know, it might be a little hot on the evening, so this one could also work for me.
There you have it Princess, more proof of just how open-minded your father is. You must feel extremely fortunate for having a Dad who is always looking out for his your best interests. You’re most welcome and it’s because I love you.
I bet this must get you so excited about having to choose that perfect, daddy-approved dress for the possible Matric-farewell you may attend one day. (Subject to screening of whoever asks you, of course.) Its’ going to be SO much fun.
I. Cannot. Wait. ;-(
From what I have read in your blog you have taught your Princess well and I am sure she will choose the perfect dress that you will be happy with.
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As long as Princess is happy too… I was just appalled to learn what some woman consider dresses these days…
That dress is like an official “leaked” photo of Rihanna.
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You have every reason to be concerned. I am shocked to see what tweens wear now a days. And it is even more shocking that these celebrities are “role models” for our children and our children think that it is fine to dress like that.
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I agree. I’m going to have to go to consignment shops to buy my daughter shorts that cover her butt– incidentally, isn’t that what shorts are for?
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Yes, YOU GET ME!!
Aaaaahhh that is so nice.
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It’s not what they put on, it’s what they take off.
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Hey Bruce, this is a surprise, I thought you were gonna lay low on the commenting…
And by the way, thanks for creating more sleepless nights for me.
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I am trying to lie low, but I can’t shut up.
AND – look WAY WAY ahead. After the purgatory stuff there’s a heaven. There’s grand kids, and a daughter who turns out just fine in the long run, no matter the interim hassles!
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But I don’t want her to grow up at all…
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Grand kids mean that one day she will have sex. I don’t think he wants to talk about that– it’s okay, you can thank me later for nipping that convo in the bud.
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NO! You used the S word…I may never sleep again…
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i like it..
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I like that you liked it…
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Well, you could always start now by taking to daddy daughter dances somewhere or another, and get her used to the idea that her only option will be to be covered in fabric from head to toe, but here’s the thing, Dad. Dresses don’t come in any style but sleeveless anymore. Don’t ask me why, but unless you plan to pay your mom for her prom dress and have it altered for your daughter, your SOL.
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AAAAAHHHHHHH—- You’re. God people who misuse that contraction piss me off. AND NOW IT”S ME!
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Yes, and what about people who use capital letters in their posts…Also very um…moving on.
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I would have paid for my mom’s prom dress, but as she was living in the era of mini-skirts, I’m probably better off with something bought in a shop of my choice.
Do you know how short the mini’s was in the sixties and seventies? Shameless.
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Shameless. My mom was going to prom in the 50’s, so I was much better off. She was in bobby socks and saddle shoes.
AND WHATCHOO GOT AGAINST PEOPLE WHO SCREAM ALL THE TIME?
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NOTHING W-H-A-T-S-O-E-V-E-R!!
Why do you ask?
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You know, I just noticed, the all caps business is a new thing for me. I have taken my fair share of pot-shots at people that do that as well. I’m going to have to get a handle on that one.
ATH LEAST I’M NOT THIS GUY, WHO JUST LEAVES THE CAPS LOCK ON ALL THE TIME, SO THAT WHEN YOU READ IT YOU END UP WITH A MIGRAINE.
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Now I need medicine, I mean a migraine-pack.
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The next to last dress will work great if Henry VIII asks her to prom.
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I hope his famous or something. Imagine if he was a King…
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Pieter, this is such a sweet post, despite the fact that you wish to dress your daughter in frock with a corset tied up to her neck!
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Thank you. I trust my daughter will find the same sentiment when I read this to her on the night of her prom…5 years from now.
It’s actually just a little ode to my kids growing up.
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Poor you…you’re in for such a rude awakening I think……what she wears is only half the battle that you can’t control, maybe even only a third! Oh my, this blog of yours is probably going to have multiple posts per hour in just a few short years……You’ll probably have to change the name of it to Dad, PLEASE!
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Hahaha. I’m just trying to be cute, you know, in a loving sort of way. The Dad PLEASE! sentiment will eventually change into Ah Dad… I hope. It will take some time though.
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Love this post. Made me laugh because we’ve already been there. Sending you an e-mail with additional thoughts. Hang in there.
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Thank you. We need all the help we can get…I’m just kidding, Princess will NEVER be caught dead in anything revealing. At least that’s what she claims now…
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Holy Mary mother of God, WHO TOLD RIHANNA THAT WAS A GOOD IDEA?! Nobody, and I mean NOBODY, looks good with that much…everything…showing.
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That’s what I said…It’s like she forgot to wear the underdress.
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I think I may have to send both of my girls to their room until they are 30, or I am dead, or both! YIKES!
#FabFridayPost
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That’s basically my plan…
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Like monds! 😘✨👍🏻
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This is so good! I do love the last dress. I vote for the Barbie doll dress. Infact, I think my sister got married in one just like that but in white of course. You are the greatest Dad! 🙂
Thank you so much for linking up with us again on #FabFridayPost
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I like a dress that overs the bare necessities. Which in my daughter’s case include the arms, neck and legs,
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Haha I feel for you and reading this reminds me what a nightmare I was as a teenager with all clothing. My poor parents! The prom dress was very important to get right, that much I remember 😉 #fabfridaypost
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