Jeez. Life doesn’t wait for anyone. She just carries on, oblivious to anything that might require a time-out. No degree of heartache, joy, anxiety or celebration slows her down. You just need to take whatever she gives you and deal with it. At your own time, for she’s not one to show sympathy or empathy just because you’re having a bad day. Or a good one for that matter.
One might expect that she would have a little consideration for trauma and allow for a slow and painless transition into normal existence. One might expect that surviving the reality of travelling in West Africa would allow you some sort of break. A moment to catch your breath. I was, after all, dealing with lethal disease, flying in shady planes, standing in overlong queues and waiting forever on people who seems to have patience as a superpower.
Nonetheless, travelling around dark Africa has given me an immeasurable appreciation for my own country, or like the people in Accra refers to it, African Europe. I’ve been back for three days, but there hasn’t even been time to celebrate me being back; life did not provide me with the easy transition I was hoping for. Continue reading